Today’s children are growing up in a world marked by rising anxiety, fear of mistakes, and increasing pressure to be perfect. Many young people struggle with stress, self-doubt, and the emotional weight of expectations. One of the most effective ways to counter these challenges is through sports, an environment uniquely designed to build strength, resilience, and confidence from the inside out.
Athletes make countless mental errors that can disrupt performance, but few are as common or as harmful as focusing on time.
Building resiliency in junior athletes is more important than ever before. In modern society, youth athletes are raised in environments that are more comfortable and where immediate gratification is at their finger tips every step of the way. Although technology has its advantages, studies show that it has also made junior athletes more sensitive to the stressors of training and competition. Simply put, athletes emotionally feel struggles more than in the past.
Performance and results are the number one goals driven in sports society. These two facets of sports are at the forefront for so many athletes starting at a young age. Millions of young athletes every year are constantly bombarded by comparison of other athletes. Much comparison is done through the use of various metrics such as ranking, times, points, and more.
At SPMI, almost every athlete’s goal is to achieve a peak performance state often referred to as a flow state or the zone. This mental state provides the maximum benefits for athlete, ensuring optimal mental performance. A peak performance state, often referred to as a “flow state” is when the athlete’s brain operates in a unique and highly efficient way.
As we prepare for Thanksgiving, athletes all over the US will be unknowingly practicing a powerful mental skill. This one mental skill often goes overlooked. In fact, most athletes don’t even consider it to be a mental skill, however, recent studies show that it has profound positive benefits that target multiple areas of the mental game. This one mental skill is called Gratitude.
When determining the underlying factors which lead to every athlete’s struggle there is a common mistake seen among much of the athlete community. This mistake if not understood early on may lead to an increase in poor performance by the athlete and in worse situations, complete burnout of the sport. As I write this article to you, I write this not out of judgement but out of compassion to help improve your role as an athlete, parent, coach, or caretaker.
In sports as in life, people admire success. Often times success even becomes a measurement tool for one's overall self-worth in the world.
Unfortunately, this misinformed infatuation by society has lead to many athletes and individuals feeling unhappy and even as a failure when they fall short of reaching society's standard of success. More specifically, what I've encountered at SPMI is that the struggle of chasing success begins at a young age when the athlete starts gaining attention and recognition from his or her coaches, parents, team, and anyone around the sport.
