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One of the most common questions I receive from parents is, "How much should my child be training?"

Every parent wants their child to be confident. They cheer from the sidelines, invest countless hours driving to practices and tournaments, and provide support in ways that often go unnoticed. Yet despite their best intentions, some common parent behaviors can unintentionally damage an athlete's confidence over time.

One of the greatest challenges we see at SPMI is emotional control, particularly anger. Parents often reach out to us because their young athlete's emotions are interfering with their ability to perform at their full potential. Over the years, we have helped thousands of athletes improve and, in many cases, master their emotional control both in sport and in life. Yet anger remains one of the most common and visible struggles athletes face.

Many parents and coaches dream of seeing a young athlete reach their full potential. At SPMI we have found that there are 6 core components to achieving the highest level. Surprisingly, these same areas when developed are directly correlated to helping them succeed in the classroom and in life. While reading this article I challenge parents and athletes to rate each category from 1 to 10 to get a better understanding of how to maximize you or your young athlete’s full potential.

At SPMI, we help athletes master the mental game because the mind drives the body, and it must be prepared for every challenge, regardless of the stakes. One of the most powerful demonstrations of true mental toughness comes from the United States Navy SEALs. Throughout the years, we have been fortunate to work with several Navy SEAL trainees, helping them develop the mental resilience required for BUD/S training, particularly the demands of Hell Week, where composure, focus, and endurance are pushed to their limits.

At SPMI we work with some of the best professional and junior athletes in the world as well as many more talented athletes who also are aspiring for greatness. And one of the most common questions that are asked are about what truly distinguishes professional athletes from amateur ones. When people talk about the difference between professional athletes and amateurs, the conversation usually starts with talent, speed, strength, or skill. While those factors matter, they are rarely what separates athletes at the highest levels.

Today’s children are growing up in a world marked by rising anxiety, fear of mistakes, and increasing pressure to be perfect. Many young people struggle with stress, self-doubt, and the emotional weight of expectations. One of the most effective ways to counter these challenges is through sports, an environment uniquely designed to build strength, resilience, and confidence from the inside out.